jessa

Reflections on becoming

Life

  • Helping a friend

    Helping a friend could mean so many things, such as: I value our history together, so I am helping my friend. I support the beliefs of my friend, so I am helping. I am willing to make exceptions because it’s my friend’s. I am helping because I am benefitting from this. And the list could Read more


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  • Going back

    Going back

    No matter how far you’ve gone, you will always want to come back where you began. And when you do, you will feel the same way you’ve felt as a child. It’s as if everything you’ve gone through was a dream. That time was a whisper, and age was a memory. You know they happened, Read more


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  • They’re not just flowers

    They’re not just flowers

    I haven’t met anyone yet, who buy themselves a bouquet. Well, I haven’t tried buying myself one, so there goes my personal bias about the matter. Since I’ve been receiving them from my boyfriend, I started to fuss about what to do with them after receiving them. Do you get what I mean? Should you Read more


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  • Living in greyscale these days

    Days seem to blur out, with the partial lockdowns and travel restrictions. And when you are the kind of person who doesn’t have any structure on what a day should look like, this is a tough time, especially for you. I cannot speak for many people, but I can say something about what I am Read more


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  • Growing something

    Growing something

    Living in the metro, if you are just an average-income earner, is different than living outside the metro in so many ways. One is on growing basically anything. Back in my home, our house is situated in a 600 square meter lot, where almost 3/4 of that is just soil. You can do so many Read more


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