Life
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Knowing what to do
If you know where you’re going, then it’s intuitive that you’re trying to figure out what to do to get there. And knowing what to do also requires data. What did others who experienced this situation do? What did I do before that worked and didn’t? Figuring out what to do becomes easy if you… Read more
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Asking (stupid) questions
Unlike children, we don’t ask questions because we feel stupid asking them. We are afraid that others will see us stupid for asking questions. Because we think that, as adults, we should already know a lot. So some of us might wonder what would happen only if we asked. And will we ever know? Sure,… Read more
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Making time for the Lord
If you’ve imbibed what the world taught you about self-sufficiency, then there’s no room for what the Lord can accomplish in your life. Because you would believe that by your strength alone, you can achieve whatever you want. And if you just create the right environment, and surround yourself with the right people, then what… Read more
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We gather where people are
I can’t remember COVID-19 anymore. Can you? Although most of us still wear face masks, there’s no longer stopping people from gathering for concerts and leisure in large crowds. It really feels like everyone is back to business. And what was once a sad street with dying businesses now thrives with economic activity. It’s lovely… Read more
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What a long-term relationship often looks like?
It looks mundane from the outside. It even feels mundane when you’re the one in a long-term relationship. However, this is mainly driven by trust and security, with a constant rhythm you know how to keep in step with. So it’s okay when there are times like nothing is something grand happening between you two… Read more
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Living for others
Isn’t it easy to live for yourself? Not thinking about others but yourself seems to be the path of least resistance. Because you understand you. And you are willing to forgive the things that feel unforgivable about yourself. If you only think about yourself, it’s easy to find all the excuses to sleep in and… Read more
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Ideas and making things happen
If you’ve participated in meetings where everyone, or at least most of all who participated in the discussion, has a lot of things to say. But what happens most of the time is that only a few are brave enough to speak up and say something. When only a few voices are heard, the concentration… Read more