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Reflections on becoming

  • We lost count

    We lost count

    How long has it been? Was it just me who lost track, or you also stopped thinking about it? Perhaps, most of us already lost count because looking back is becoming exhausting (and tragic for some). But undeniably, each one of us has a story to tell. What’s your pandemic story? P.S.: In the Philippines, Read more


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  • Where did all my money go?

    A dinner out here and there turned into dinners out regularly, which turned into dinners out regularly with a few takeout dinners thrown in, which turned into dinners out regularly with takeout dinners most other nights. The slippery slope from one into the next was invisible, but when we finally thought to pay attention, we Read more


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  • How most of us became the yes-man

    From an early age, high achievers are taught to sacrifice independent thought for a good grade. We’re taught that compliance will be rewarded by being picked. And the biggest pick for many kids is the approval that comes from a famous college (or the improv group that’s running auditions at said famous college). The Practice: Read more


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  • Getting off the clock

    If you are reading this now, you are probably trudging down the default path your parents or society has imposed since you were young. And what is that default path? We work for that paycheck, live for the weekend, and spend our money trying to soothe all the stress of it all. Work Optional: Retire Read more


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  • To all the diploma holders out there

    It’s been two years since I received my master’s degree. And yes, my diploma wouldn’t tell you whether I care about the things that I should. And most of the time, we work because we want to get paid. And we want to get paid because we have bills to pay and mouths to feed. Read more


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