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Everyday Stories, Lived

  • How most of us became the yes-man

    From an early age, high achievers are taught to sacrifice independent thought for a good grade. We’re taught that compliance will be rewarded by being picked. And the biggest pick for many kids is the approval that comes from a famous college (or the improv group that’s running auditions at said famous college). The Practice:… Read more


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  • Getting off the clock

    If you are reading this now, you are probably trudging down the default path your parents or society has imposed since you were young. And what is that default path? We work for that paycheck, live for the weekend, and spend our money trying to soothe all the stress of it all. Work Optional: Retire… Read more


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  • To all the diploma holders out there

    It’s been two years since I received my master’s degree. And yes, my diploma wouldn’t tell you whether I care about the things that I should. And most of the time, we work because we want to get paid. And we want to get paid because we have bills to pay and mouths to feed.… Read more


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  • I’ll respond to that next time

    When we don’t know how to respond to a question at the moment, we’re tempted to hide away our ignorance or lack of confidence by trying to give a response right away. But it’s actually robbing the other person of a better response, if we’re not humble enough to admit that, “I don’t know how… Read more


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  • The future of the outdoor industry

    The pandemic may have limited most of us to spend our time inside of confined spaces but it also opened doors for more mobility. With the increased vaccination rollout, people are becoming more comfortable getting out of their homes, especially those who already own or have the capacity to own private vehicles. I have also… Read more


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  • Why we need to keep moving (and adapt) even when things are at a halt

    It’s hard to get blocked when you’re moving. Even if you’re not moving in the direction that you had in mind that morning. — The Practice: Shipping Creative Work If you’ve already heard about us being “creatures of habit,” that’s most likely true. Because we don’t think much about whether we should brush our teeth… Read more


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  • Definitions, perceptions

    It’s fascinating how our definitions affect our perception of people and circumstances. So it pays to have a heart check first before adding color to what’s going on around you. I have to admit that it feels like my life has trickled since 2020 (frozen in time). But then again, we need to go back… Read more


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