jessa

Everyday Stories, Lived

Relationships

  • A night at the carousel

    I’ve heard people say that the pandemic has affected children the most. And perhaps, it’s true. Especially when you live in cities where movement is limited and government protocols keep evolving, from having the liberty to roam around and being restricted to the next. With slivers of chances (from where I live, at least), we Read more


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  • Generational gap

    It’s easy to be mad at people when you think they don’t understand where you’re coming from. And we always believe that people should know where we’re coming from. As much as we wanted to have our voice (and ideas) matter, dealing with people isn’t as straightforward as we’d like it to be. Especially when Read more


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  • Can you be my friend?

    Of course, we don’t ask people around with that question, do we? Instead, we spend time with them, get to know them, and assess whether it is worth going through the friendship or not. But perhaps, it’s about getting the courage to ask them if they want to grab some coffee with you or spend Read more


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  • Hello friends

    I’ve been frequently talking about making friends. And in case you haven’t noticed, I also told you about making efforts, right? And that’s what I just did! Did it cost me a lot? YES! But was it worth it? TOTALLY! You know what, making friends is one thing. And it’s another when you want to Read more


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  • Working from home? Here’s how you can make friends

    Remember the last time I told you about making friends? Like how challenging it seems now that we’re adults trapped inside working hours? And how we are now required to add more effort if we want to widen our circle of friends outside our officemates? And what if you’re now working from home? How can Read more


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  • Ah, making friends

    We used to be so good at it, right? Okay, maybe not you. But still, while we were still in school, we had a higher chance of making a friend or two compared with our present selves who work around the clock. And if you’re married with children, chances are you’re busy keeping up with Read more


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  • How did we get this far?

    You’ve probably heard about us years ago. How long ago was that? Ten years? Maybe, you’ve met us along the way and you wonder, how did they get this far? Sometimes, I wonder about that too. (Perhaps, you’ve never met us at all. Because, of course, you’ve only met me through this blog, right?) Yes, Read more


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