jessa

Everyday Stories, Lived

Relationships

  • A dream or a memory?

    I had a dream, and I know it was just a dream. Because I was with you, and in reality, we’re never together. You took me photographs, flattering and candid. You said it’s one way to keep our memories intact, frozen in time. I could hear your happiness when I looked into your eyes and Read more


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  • Lonely people doing crazy things

    In my previous blog post, I told you how this taxi driver shared hilarious stories. I never really asked for them, but he shared them freely as if you were paying for entertainment, buckled in a front seat of a comedy bar. He talked about his driving experience–how different people expect him to do the Read more


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  • The space, silence, and loneliness

    There’s a kind of space in our lives that we long to be filled. And no matter how hard we try, we can only bear the loneliness at a point. Beyond that, it becomes too depressing. And the noise in my head is so loud that it’s all I hear. Or perhaps, the room is Read more


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  • Being a Karen and seeing others as human

    Yes, you don’t always have to be a Karen. Remember the saying that you should not do unto others what you don’t want them to do unto you? It takes humility to see that the people you are engaging with are somebody’s mother, father, sister, or brother. And that treating them kindly, especially when they’re Read more


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  • Reunions are sweet and fragrant

    It’s incredible how, even after you left a place for years, it feels like you never left the moment you came back. Everything felt the same except the faces that see you, often surprised that you’re back, longing to catch up with you. Their warm welcome will remind you that there has been a before- Read more


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  • Hosting parties during the time of COVID-19

    With protocols loosening up in the face of the decreasing COVID-related cases in the country, I sometimes forget it’s out there (still) inflicting people. And now that we can finally attend and even host parties, the fears of COVID are slowly jumping out of our thoughts. But what’s fascinating is how we’re getting used to Read more


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  • How to be misunderstood

    Well, you might find it easier than being understood. How so? By barely saying anything, continue showing how mad or disappointed you are. Let your object of wrath read between the lines–interpret the unecessary banging of doors and clanging of the dishes you just washed. Yes, let them read through all those things you never Read more


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