jessa

Reflections on becoming

Life

  • Knowing what to do

    If you know where you’re going, then it’s intuitive that you’re trying to figure out what to do to get there. And knowing what to do also requires data. What did others who experienced this situation do? What did I do before that worked and didn’t? Figuring out what to do becomes easy if you Read more


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  • Asking (stupid) questions

    Unlike children, we don’t ask questions because we feel stupid asking them. We are afraid that others will see us stupid for asking questions. Because we think that, as adults, we should already know a lot. So some of us might wonder what would happen only if we asked. And will we ever know? Sure, Read more


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  • Making time for the Lord

    If you’ve imbibed what the world taught you about self-sufficiency, then there’s no room for what the Lord can accomplish in your life. Because you would believe that by your strength alone, you can achieve whatever you want. And if you just create the right environment, and surround yourself with the right people, then what Read more


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  • We gather where people are

    I can’t remember COVID-19 anymore. Can you? Although most of us still wear face masks, there’s no longer stopping people from gathering for concerts and leisure in large crowds. It really feels like everyone is back to business. And what was once a sad street with dying businesses now thrives with economic activity. It’s lovely Read more


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  • What a long-term relationship often looks like?

    It looks mundane from the outside. It even feels mundane when you’re the one in a long-term relationship. However, this is mainly driven by trust and security, with a constant rhythm you know how to keep in step with. So it’s okay when there are times like nothing is something grand happening between you two Read more


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