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Reflections on becoming

The unstructured freedom of a five-year-old

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I could remember what a day was like as a five-year-old.

I wake up (either with excitement or protest), eat breakfast, shower, and dream about life for the rest of the day. Usually, the grown-ups dictate what I ought to do in the day, but my internal goal is always the same, to enjoy and have fun. 

What games would I play today? Who can I play with today? What TV show would be playing at this hour? Where can I explore today?

Now that I am almost 30, spending time with a five-year-old frees me from the constraints of a schedule of an adult. Children allow me to be present and enjoy what is — now.

And perhaps, that is their role. Children remind us to have fun even when we’ve made our days so structured we forget to just enjoy the moment.


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