There are many things about ourselves that we never share with anybody.
Why?
Because we’re afraid to bring out the secrets we hide away in the dark. The ones we try to deal with and get better at. The ones that we never know we have but are there, lying in wait to get the best of us.
But if we desire to be known, to be genuinely known from deep down, we risk ourselves from becoming vulnerable, revealing things beneath our skins, something we think are unlovable.
And once we get out of the fear of being known for who we are, allowing ourselves to be known, it would be so rewarding only when the one to whom we bared it all is fully committed to loving us regardless. Much more when we commit ourselves to become better for relationship growth and maturity.
At the same time, do not fall into the trap of baring it all to people who are not fully committed to you. They might just run away, and becoming vulnerable with them would only hurt you in the process.
jessa 