We are identified by the lifestyle we lead.
If the things we say do not align with what we do, people will evaluate us by our actions. Why? Because the things we do reflect what fills our hearts.
If we’re generous, the words we say align with our actions. The same when we’re stingy, even when we try to sugarcoat the things we say.
A bitter person may feign kindness, but dealing with them would be like walking on tiptoes.