An insecure person also collects ill wills and unleashes them when the object of anger (or even irritation) provokes them.
As hostility unconsciously rises outside the most profound thoughts, even the one who spoke them out loud is surprised by the words that go out of their mouths. And their words are like daggers that stab and wound.
Insecurities also put other people always in a bad light. Did you do something good? It doesn’t matter in the eyes of an insecure person.
They will only remember what you did wrong and park on it. They crucify you in the image they conjured in their minds. It doesn’t matter if they are wrong. What matters is how it felt right for them to lash out at you.
The intention is to hurt you back like how they think you have hurt them too.